Welcome to A Table For Grief

Grieving our babies & Building Loss Mom friendships

A Table for Grief

A Table for Grief brings together moms grieving the death of their baby to build loss mom friendships so that we can be naturally supported, completely honest, and find a way forward through the unthinkable.

This community is exclusively for bereaved mothers after baby loss so we have a safe, private place to share the daily journey of love, loss, grief, and life after loss.

"This is the only group where I truly feel like a mom." -Lindsey after her first child was stillborn


Who is hosting this table?

My name is Jillian. My third child was stillborn on his due date. His name is Oscar.

As I stared down my first set of holidays without my son I envisioned a safe holiday table where grief was welcome. A table that acknowledged the missing person. A table where tears were welcome. An honest table. This is how A Table for Grief got its name.

Grief is incredibly lonely; and even more so when you're grieving a baby few people were privileged enough to meet. After losing my son, I quickly came to believe. .  .

there is no such thing as too much support or community.


Conversation

Wondering if this virtual dining room is for you? Here’s the type of conversations we’ll have at the table: 

  • memories and experiences (of pregnancy, delivery, healthcare, life and death and more) 
  • details of our precious fleeting time with our baby(ies)
  • memorials in memory/ honor of our baby(ies)
  • daily realities of grief
  • peer-sourced helpful resources 
  • + we will share photos

And we will say their names. Again and again. We will not hide our love.


Membership

Your membership* to A Table for Grief includes:

  • 24/7 access to a safe, understanding, empathetic community. You’re never alone! Share photos and stories, ask questions, take polls, share songs and resources, and more.
  • a mobile app that makes it easy to stay connected to the community and easy to find moms with similar interests or located near you
  • live virtual events! Think holidays, remembrance activities, and just talking it out
  • group and private messaging (‘cause we’re here to talk and talk and talk)
  • sub-groups for rainbow babies and siblings (so you can choose whether or not to see these posts or participate in these conversations) (coming mid-Dec!)
  • resource library with books, teas, songs and more (coming Jan '23!)

*Complimentary memberships available upon request and interview.


Safety

I take the safety of this community seriously so I do reserve the right to deny membership and/ or remove members who present a threat to the community.

This community is not a place to mine information, clients or customers. You must have personally experienced pregnancy/ baby loss to join this community.

This is a peer community. No professional medical advice is given here.

Contact

[email protected]